Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Suspense - a Great Addition to Romance

Most people don't appreciate the value of suspense in their romance; or, at least, don't make much use of it. I'm not talking about horror movie suspense, I'm talking about the suspense of expectancy. Remember when you were a kid, waiting for Christmas morning? That's the kind of suspense I'm talking about.

Day 4 - Buy your wife something sexy to wear; it can be an outer garment, or something more intimate. Now, I know that most guys freeze at the idea of buying clothes for their wives, but it really isn't as bad as you think. First of all, find out her size. The easiest way to do that, is to look in her closet. Secondly, if you don't know her favorite colors, find out. How? By looking in her closet. If she has lots of clothes in one color, there's a good chance she likes that color. Finally, don't worry about style. I know that sounds a little crazy, but for this romantic act, it really doesn't matter. Don't buy her something you think she'd like; buy her something you'd like to see her in.

Okay, now that you've finished the hard part; that is, buying the article of clothing, wrap it nicely as a gift. Include a note saying, "Put this on and meet me at _____ at 6:00 pm" (insert the address, but not the name, of your favorite restaurant, or one you've been wanting to try). Don't use one of those gift bags to wrap it, because it's too easy for her to peek. Put a tag on it with her name, and "don't open until Friday" (this is the suspense part, you can be sure she'll be wondering about it all week).

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