Friday, December 17, 2010
Fill Her Gas Tank
You know, all along I’ve said that romance isn’t about the big things, but about the little things. It isn’t taking her on a cruise (although that can be very romantic), but rather about taking her for a walk. It isn’t about buying her a diamond ring (which is also romantic), but buying her a flower. The size of the act isn’t so important, it’s the message you are sending that is.
The message is all about telling her how important she is to you. While a big thing can tell her that, a small thing can say the same thing. Not only that, but the idea is to have lots of continual acts which tell her that she is important. That’s where true romance is shown.
One of the ways we can make sure she gets that message is by taking care of her. A woman needs to feel protected from all the dangers in the world around her. She doesn’t want or need to be in a place where she is unsure and insecure. It’s your job to make sure that doesn’t happen.
Day 58 – Here’s a little thing that you can do to make sure that you are protecting her. That is to fill the gas tank of her car. That’s it, simple, right?
How would you like it if your wife ran out of gas, coming home in the dark some night? Wouldn’t you be worried about her safety? Don’t you think she’d be worried about her safety? Well, all you have to do to avoid that worry for both of you is regularly check her car, and make sure she’s got gas in it.
Besides the worry part, women don’t like to have to fill the car. In general, women don’t like to deal with anything mechanical, nor do they like to deal with anything greasy. Since it doesn’t bother you all that much, you can easily take care of this detail for her.
When you come back in the door after taking her car to the gas station, and say, “You car’s gas tank is full.” she’s going to hear, “He cares about me.”